10 Conversations To Have With Your Child Every Year

Having regular conversations with your child is essential for building a strong, open relationship and helping them develop important life skills. Here are ten conversations to have with your child every year, tailored to different age groups:


For younger children (ages 4-7):

1. What's your favorite thing about our family?

2. What makes you feel happy and safe?

3. How do you like to express your feelings?

4. What's one thing you're looking forward to doing soon?

5. Who are some people you trust and why?


For older children (ages 8-12):

1. What's something you're proud of accomplishing this year?

2. How do you handle feeling angry or frustrated?

3. What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?

4. What's one thing you're looking forward to learning more about?

5. How do you think we can support each other as a family?


For teenagers (ages 13+):

1. What's your favorite way to relax and de-stress?

2. How do you navigate difficult situations with friends?

3. What's one goal you have for the upcoming year?

4. How do you think social media affects relationships?

5. What's something you appreciate about our family's values?

Remember, these conversations are meant to be starting points, not interrogations! Listen actively, offer guidance, and enjoy the opportunity to connect with your child.


Feel free to adjust or add questions based on your child's unique needs and interests. Happy conversing!